Child abuse: recognise and report
Social isolation due to COVID19 makes it harder for authorities to identify child abuse cases. That is why it’s important for essential workers with potential access to family homes to be able to recognise signs of abuse and know where to report their concerns.
If you have concerns, take action and report your concerns to Tusla. We all have a role to play in protecting children.
Types of Abuse:
Neglect Lack of care or supervision Child deprived of food, clothing, hygiene, safety, mental stimulation, etc.
Physical Child is deliberately physically hurt or is at risk of being physically hurt e.g.: Shaking child, using excessive force
Emotional Child’s need for affection, approval, security are not met e.g. excessive punishment, exposure to domestic violence
Sexual Child is used for someone else’s sexual gratification/arousal
Possible signs of abuse
Neglect
- Child says no one is at home to provide care Is being cared for by an inappropriate adult
- Is often dirty/has severe body odour
- Lacks enough/appropriate clothing for weather
- Lacks medical or dental care
- Lacks enough food/water
- Begs or steals food/money
- Abuses alcohol/drugs
Physical
- Child has unexplained injuries (burns, bites, bruises, black eyes, broken bones)
- Reports injury by parent/caregiver
- Is scared of parents/caregivers
- Shrinks when approached by adults
- Is scared/anxious, depressed, withdrawn, aggressive
- Abuses animals/pets
Emotional
- Child shows extreme behaviours (is too passive/aggressive or too submissive/demanding)
- Acts too old or too young for their age (e.g. is parenting other children or often rocking/banging head)
- Expresses depressive/suicidal thoughts
Sexual
- Child has difficulty walking/sitting
- Has bleeding, bruising, swelling around private parts
- Attaches very quickly to strangers/new adults
- Shows unusual, sophisticated sexual knowledge or behaviour
- Reports nightmares/bedwetting
- Observes/shares sexual images online
- Parent/caregiver observes/shares sexual images online in presence of children
WHEN to report:
You should report abuse when:
- You witness an incident/sign (outlined above) consistent with abuse
- A child says or indicates in some other way that they’ve been abused
- An adult or child admits that they’ve committed abuse
- Another person shares that they’ve witnessed or know about a child being abused
HOW to report:
- You can report your concerns in person, by phone, or by email to the local Tusla Children and Family Services centre in the area where the child lives.
- You can choose to keep your report anonymous.
- You should contact Tusla even if you’re unsure about reporting; they will talk to you and decide what to do.
- If a child is in immediate danger, contact the Gardaí at 112/999 or www.garda.ie
You are legally protected
The Protection for Persons Reporting Child Abuse Act 1998 protects you when reporting suspected child abuse to Tusla or an Garda Síochána IF you believe your report is true and your report is not malicious.
If you have concerns and want to discuss them with a Tusla Social Worker click the link for contact details in Donegal https://www.tusla.ie/services/child-protection-welfare/contact-a-social-worker/donegal-social-work-duty-teams/
You can phone 074 9123672 to speak to a Duty Social Worker here in County Donegal
Here is the link to a poster with all the information provided above
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I thought it may be useful to share the link to the guide - https://switcher.ie/broadband/guides/how-to-keep-your-children-safe-online/ - which you can include on your website ahead of Safer Internet Day, to help parents and children who may need some extra support. We've also put together some handy top tips you can use on your website: 10 tips to keep your children safe online
- How to reduce the risks online
- How to recognise cyber bullying and grooming
- How to educate children on cyber safety
- How to set up parental controls on devices
- Talk about it:Make time to chat about online risks and how to use the internet safelyas soon as they're old enough to go online. Encourage your children to speak to you about what they view online and empower them to act if they're worried about anything.
- Recognise the risks: Educate yourself about the potential dangers children could face online so it’s easier to spot warning signs. Get to know what platforms your children use, and learn about dangers such as phishing, grooming and cyberbullying.
- Teach the do's and don'ts: Be clear about the non-negotiables. For example, teach your child not to share personal details or photos with strangers and instruct them not to click on links to unknown websites or texts. Do encourage your child to question what they see and only accept friend requests from people they know.
- Spot the signs: Pay attention to your children's behaviour whilst on and off their devices. Being alert to changes in your child can help prevent problems from escalating. Some warning signs are withdrawing from friends or family, sleeping and eating problems or losing interest in previously loved hobbies or interests.
- Set boundaries:Let your children know what they can and can't do on the internet from the get-go. Agree on what devices they can use, when, and how long they can spend online. As they get older, explaining and negotiating boundaries may be more effective.
- Take 'parental' control: These ready-made boundaries put parents in control of what children can see online. They can be set up through your internet provider at device level to block specific websites and filter out inappropriate content.
- Be social media savvy: The popularity of social media apps like TikTok and Snapchat makes it harder to keep track of what your child is accessing online. Fortunately, each social media platform has its own privacy settings and safety tips for parents. Check them out before you let children have their own accounts.
- Protect from harm:Install antivirus software on family devices to minimise the risk of cyber attacks or scams. Use two-factor authentication (2FA) for extra security on your online accounts. This can also stop children from signing into services they're not allowed to use.
- Set a great example: You're the greatest 'influencer' in your children's lives when they're young. Limiting your time online, discussing dangers you've come across, and questioning what you view can help reinforce the rules you are setting for your children and, in turn, influence their online behaviour.
- Seek support:The more you learn about online dangers, the better equipped you'll be to handle them. There are some great resources like webwise.ie, internetmatters.organd cybersafekids.ie to help you recognise and reduce online dangers and seek advice if you think your child is experiencing cyberbullying or is at risk online.
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Infant Mental Health Awareness Week runs from June 13th-19th.
This week provides an opportunity to focus attention on the wellbeing, social and emotional development of our babies and young children. It highlights the importance of early relationships and a relationship based approach to interventions with infants and families. As our understanding of IMH and its evidence base develops, so also does our knowledge of how to apply this knowledge and an ‘IMH lens’ to interactions with infants, parents and caregivers in health and social services.
What is infant mental health?
Infant Mental health (IMH) refers to the healthy social and emotional development of Infants starting at conception up to three years of age.
The first 1000 days of life are recognised as a critical period of opportunity to support infant mental health. Decades of research have shown that it is the quality of the early caregiver relationship that is a significant determinant of the infant’s healthy social and emotional development and in turn physical health, right up to adulthood.
The National Healthy Childhood Programme has embedded IMH as the foundation of the development of its resources and in the approach of the delivery of the universal child health service. This embedding of key messages can be seen in the My Child suite of books (www.mychild.ie/books) and also on www.MyChild.ie where key messages around bonding and relationship building have been embedded for the parent/caregiver.
In clinical practice the topic of IMH has been included for the first time in the National Standardised Child Health Record. To build on this, the National Healthy Childhood Programme have just completed a suite of three eLearning units which are now available on HSEland for healthcare practitioners / caregivers who are working with children and families.
Throughout the week you will see videos and key IMH messaging being promoted on the HSE MyChild social media pages ( Facebook / Instagram ). Keep an eye out in the National Newspapers for articles from our experts also. (IrishTimes article)
In addition The National Healthy Childhood Programme have developed a series of ten practical videos with HSE expert advice which are now available on YouTube and on the relevant pages on the www.mychild.ie website.
These videos (2-3 minutes each) are aimed at parents/guardians of children (0 – 3 years).
These new video resources are available here while lots more expert advice for every step of pregnancy, baby and toddler health can also be found at www.mychild.ie
There are a suite of posters available focusing on the promotion of IMH messaging to order from healthy.childhood@hse.ie